One of the most important things we can do is do away with reactionary priority focus when it comes to dealing with kids and families that need help. These days we have created a system where kids and families that need help don’t want any because they fear getting detrimentally impacted by the regulatory enforcement agencies. Therefore, several of these families don’t strive e to get help when they need help. We need to transform this focus to an open arms loving caring holistic approach as soon as possible. This approach eases the concerns of families that need help and thus have a higher likelihood of getting help when they need help. About 20 something years ago, I mentioned it may be a great idea to anonymously identify those families and kids that need help. This holistic method would accumulate data and information in a holistic way with the intent to help instead of contribute to the dysfunction, chaos, and detrimental impacts on the family. These holistic intervention techniques may occur behind the scenes and/or in a more direct holistic problem solving way depending on the characteristics of the issue. If people know that professionals are 100% here to help them with their situation, they have increased likelihood to get help when they need it. One of the first things to do would be to create an anonymous holistic help box where people put peoples names in box of people that may need help in some way. Once we do this, a planned holistic systematic approach for handling the data and creating knowledge from it will occur so we are able to send resources to help with whatever problem may need to be holistically explored further. All the while, we will be continuously learning more and more about the complexity of each particular issue thus creating more and more research while at the same time helping those that needs help. This would propel these situations into an upward spiral beneficial feedback loop where there is an increased likelihood that nothing but beneficial impacts will occur while trying to solve the problem multidimensionally. At the same time, we must help transform all those people, agencies, and organizations to more holistic functioning as soon as possible. This will increase the likelihood that the investment of resources will create the absolute best positive beneficial impacts possible. Hopefully, we will cease functioning in a reactionary investigatory manner where cases are dealt with in a static sort of way where individuals get punished for the inability to have enough of what they need to adequately bring up their family. We need to holistically plan a more benign holistic functioning. We must not blame anyone for the past, it is the way we have been doing things for thousand of years.