The greatest strength comes from love, not fighting and violence. Is toughness and fighting behavior a sign of weakness that manifests itself in more of the same behaviors? You become weaker as you use more fighting behavior because you have less love. Therefore, those who fight may be very weak because they have fewer love behaviors. Have we created a society that produces more fighting and violence by making people who are more interested in other things besides love? Have we used all of our energy to compete using all types of fighting behavior and violence, even going so far as to solve problems for fighting purposes? People will do anything to compete when the prize is more significant in life. In the past, it has been about fighting and violence in some way, shape, or form. Let us transform to see if we can compete in a more loving problem-solving way. I wonder if more fighter behavior occurs because our society has produced fighters at an increasing rate, given how things are in this world. We seem to be creating circumstances all the time to create chaos, greed, ultra competitiveness, complexity, adequate funding for warfighting, reactionary justice, less proper funding of education, more unlivable wages, lack of holistic health care, and more transference mechanisms when those in control have been engaged in mainly violence of some type. We have been in a downward spiral feedback loop because we have created conditions for individuals to be in downward spiral feedback loops. Each individual’s health is essential for the overall health of our people and our natural environment.

Consequently, the well-being of all of us on planet Earth comes down to collectively how healthy we have been nurtured. I am standing up for the vulnerable people in this world who have been transference mechanisms for all of the “way things are world” violent behavior. They are more lovers than fighters. I wonder if those who fight need love more. Therefore, as part of my lover problem-solving, I will research and explore ways to help people love more and use more lover problem-solving instead of traditional methods. However, the weird concept here is that those who are more accepted in our society are those who fight more and use more violence. Is it possible that something supposed to be more about love has turned into behind-the-scenes violence?

Over time-fighting and violence have shown themselves to be an incubator of more fighting and violence. It is just a matter of when and where. It is an out-of-control downward spiral positive feedback loop. It may be mainly about a transference attempt from cowardly people who have no courage (because of subservientization). The reason for these behaviors is that many do not have any lover problem-solving skills, and many have been conditioned to use fighting and violence because that is what we are shown in our society to resolve conflict. I am ending all violence on planet Earth with lovers, not fighters. Then, I will try to find ways to give more love to fighters so they can become lovers, too. I will end the violence cycle everywhere on Earth by working together with lovers and anyone else who is interested.